Give yourself some time.
Lower the expectations. Be a good friend. Don't let your seeking growth interfere with the potentialities that you know, exist within him. Fall back, learn to love him other ways. Accept. Let go of the things you're told everything should be. You're not the only one with problems. You're not in the right all the time. You're not right at all. In fact, you can only talk through your experiences. Yours are not his, his are not yours. You hurt, you're hurt. You heal, he'll heal. Stop wanting him to exist through your preferences and needs. He looks at you and sees nothing more but what you show him. Stop trying to figure him out. Stop trying to help him. Accept the silence. Learn to not know everything. Learn to love what you don't know. Learn to grow apart. Learn to be aside and let him come forward if and when he wants. Stop trying to fix, there's nothing to fix. Only he knows what he wants, what he is, and what he'd like to change. The more space and trust you honor in his own power, the more honest, carrying and open he'll be to you. Trust the power within him, let him take care of himself and ask when he wants you to take care of him. Love, unexpectedly.
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